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Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 33 – What Is The Medicine to Your Relationship?

Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 33 – What Is The Medicine to Your Relationship?
COVID-19 is top of mind for many of us and your feelings about it have likely intensified over the last several weeks. While we don't want to add to creating additional anxiety around what is happening, we thought it would be a good time to think about ways to look at your relationship and do things that can help to nurture it. Like COVID-19, there will always be outside, external forces that we can't control that will come along that will challenge the fabric and framework of your relationship. It's important to find ways to use factors outside of your relationship to keep it nourished, th...
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Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 32- What Is Self-Love vs Superficial Love and Why You’re Getting it Wrong

Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 32- What Is Self-Love vs Superficial Love and Why You’re Getting it Wrong
Self-love and Superficial love can easily be comingled. But, there is a clear difference between the two. We live in a society where there is a lot of talk about self-love. And there are a lot of perceptions being shared as to what self-love encompasses causing some confusion. Listen in as K and I break down the difference and share our perspective on why one holds a higher value than the other. We will also help to enlighten you as to why self-love may not be what you have been taught to believe. Please remember to subscribe to future episodes of Bedtalks on the Anchor App, Itunes, Goog...
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Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 31- How You Can Stay Connected In A Long-Term Relationship

Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 31- How You Can Stay Connected In A Long-Term Relationship
Long-term relationships seem to be rare these days. Often times two people in a relationship opt to throw in the towel versus working to make their relationship work with one another. Sometimes it may feel easier to walk away versus putting in the additional work to make a relationship work. The pull of additional family responsibilities, demanding careers, and other factors also play a pivotal role in affecting our relationships. It’s not uncommon for two people to settle into a relationship once they’ve been together for a period of time. How do you stay engaged and committed with your si...
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3 Important Love Lessons I Learned from the The Photograph Movie

3 Important Love Lessons I Learned from the The Photograph Movie
As a relationship coach, I strive to learn as much as I can about love to empower the relationship you have with your significant other. When the movie, The Photograph, came out recently I was game to check it out. After all, there is so much you can learn about someone's love story that is usually relatable to your love story too. So, my significant other and I decided to check out the new movie, The Photograph, directed by Stella Meghie, staring, Issa Rae, LaKeith Stanfield, Y'lan Noel, and Chante' Adams among many other talented actors. We enjoyed this movie for so many reasons. It felt ...
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Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 29 – Rabbit Holes and Relationships – What Do They Have In Common?

Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 29 – Rabbit Holes and Relationships – What Do They Have In Common?
Remember the movie, “The Matrix?” That movie has a lot in common with relationships. Are you willing to stay in the comfort zone regarding your relationship or are you willing to go down the rabbit hole? The path of least resistance is always easier. It's much more difficult to take the less-traveled road. Yet, there are so many learnings when we are willing to step outside of what is familiar to us. Life is fragile and it's so very important that we live up to our full potential and in our real purpose. Listen in as we explore this topic further in our newest episode "Rabbit Holes and R...
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Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 28 – Love or Loyalty- Do They Go Hand in Hand?

Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 28 – Love or Loyalty- Do They Go Hand in Hand?
K & I were recently watching a documentary, "I Called Him Morgan," on Netflix. We couldn't help but recognize the parallels of this tragic story about a Jazz Musician, Lee Morgan and what happens in relationships when love and loyalty are tested. It's clear by this documentary, the love Lee and Helen shared was genuine, but as their relationship experienced a shift, it had an irreparable impact on their relationship. Love and Loyalty are two important facets of a healthy relationship. But, sometimes one of these components, love or loyalty can diminish due to a change in circumstances, ...
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Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 27– How to Navigate the Holidays Whether You’re Single (Pair-less) or In a Relationship (Paired)

Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 27– How to Navigate the Holidays Whether You’re Single (Pair-less) or In a Relationship (Paired)
Hey, Y'all! Welcome back to a new episode of Bedtalks. We've been on a bit of a hiatus, but we are back! The holidays are upon us. And this time of year can bring about many feelings for a myriad of reasons. It can be a difficult time of the year to navigate whether you are single or in a relationship. Feelings of loneliness, feeling overextended by your many responsibilities, and figuring out how to get in quality time with one another if you are in a relationship are some of the more common challenges. Listen in as K and I discuss some tips we’ve found that are helpful to make su...
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Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 25 – What’s On Your Mind? A Q&A About Your Most Commonly Asked Relationship Questions

Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 25 – What’s On Your Mind? A Q&A About Your Most Commonly Asked Relationship Questions
Hey Ya'll Welcome to the Bedtalks Podcast! As a Relationship Coach, there are certain types of relationship questions I hear frequently and K & I thought it would fun to talk about some of the more common ones that have been on your mind on this episode of Bedtalks. This show is a milestone for us. It's our 25th Podcast Show!  We have so much fun doing this show and started the show because we would have the best discussions about our relationship in the wee hours of the night or in the early mornings, hence the title, "Bedtalks." We try to keep the show light-hearted, but we d...
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Codependency Explained – 3 Signs ft. Elizabeth Overstreet and Mark Rosenfeld

Codependency Explained – 3 Signs ft. Elizabeth Overstreet and Mark Rosenfeld
Recently, I had an interview and discussion with Mark Rosenfeld, a Relationship Expert, about the topic of codependency. It's one of the dating and relationship advice questions Mark and I are asked about often. We wanted to simplify codependency, explain codependency and help people wrap their heads around this important, but often misunderstood concept. This topic struck a nerve and started a lot of discussion amongst my followers across my social media. I am intrigued about the topic and I think it's always important to provide additional explanation and context especially around a topic...
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Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 25 – Thoughts vs Feelings – Finding Your Balance Between the Two

Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 25 – Thoughts vs Feelings – Finding Your Balance Between the Two
Hey Ya'll We're back with a new episode of Bedtalks. This week's topic is, "Thoughts vs Feelings - Finding Your Balance Between the Two." Your thoughts and feelings are important. Fiding the balance between the two can be complicated. Listen in as K and I discuss why the two are so interconnected. We also discuss what happens when you lean into one more than the other. We hope you enjoy this episode! Until next time, XoXo Please also remember to subscribe to future Bedtalk podcast episodes on the Anchor app, iTunes, Google Podcasts, and Spotify. Get ...
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