Your Most Important Relationship James Sama, a Dating Expert, recently posted this quote on his Facebook page: "Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have." This is a simple but true statement. When I speak with my clients about their relationships and how they can get what they want from someone else, the question arises: "How do I attract who I want?" Or they start talking about the traits they want the other person to have. In order to know who you want to attract, you do need to know what traits you want the other person to have. But a more impo...