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Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 15 – The Realities and Truths of Love – Part 1 – (The Challenges of Love)

Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 15 – The Realities and Truths of Love – Part 1 – (The Challenges of Love)
We love the good parts of love, but even with an ideal partner, there are going to be some challenges along the way. K and I discuss The Realities and Truths of Love in part 1 of our 5 part series digging into the five components of a relationship. Our series of discussions will include the following: 1.) The Challenges of Love 2.) Risks (Gamble) of love 3.) Protection (Covering) of love 4.) The Fear of Love 5.) The Power (Strength) of Love Tune in to Part 1 where K and I discuss 'The Challenges of Love." Get your We Have Chemistry Report Here
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Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 11 – What is Your Relationship Pattern?

Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 11 – What is Your Relationship Pattern?
Just as you form habits or patterns in your day to day life, you naturally do the same in your relationships. They are your relationship patterns. Each relationship has a pattern. And you have a pattern you use within your relationships. Some of these patterns you learn in your relationships or pick up in your observation of those around you. This can be good or bad depending on the habits you have built and established in your relationships. But, there is always room for improvement in the way you manage, handle, and cope with your relationships. Listen in as we discuss relationship...
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Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 8 – Social Media and Relationships – Is It All That It’s Cracked Up To Be?

Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 8 – Social Media and Relationships – Is It All That It’s Cracked Up To Be?
Social Media can have subtle and not so subtle effects on your relationships and on you personally. How do you find the balance? What is the proper level of social engagement as it relates to your relationship? Listen in as K and I delve into this topic and we figure it out together. And don't forget to subscribe to future episodes of Bedtalks on the Anchor App, Itunes, Google Podcasts, and Spotify. Until next time, XOXO
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Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 5 – The 5 Stages You Need to Have a Successful Relationship

Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 5 – The 5 Stages You Need to Have a Successful Relationship
  Have you ever wondered what differentiates those couples who have relationships that seem happy, thoughtful, and healthy versus those that struggle to have a relationship that lasts? Do you find yourself repeating similar patterns in your relationship where things start off good but then go in the totally opposite direction? K and I discuss the 5 Stages You Need to have a Successful Relationship. Most couples don't make it past stage 2. It's an interesting discussion and discovery process about how we love and nurture our significant others in relationships. I'm positive as...
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2018 Dating Terms You Should Know – Part 3

2018 Dating Terms You Should Know – Part 3
Tune in for part 3 of my discussion with Robert of the Orion Group as we tackle part 3 of dating terms you should know to help you date smarter. 2018 Dating Terms You Should Know - Part 3
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Why Vulnerability is the Best Aphrodisiac

Why Vulnerability is the Best Aphrodisiac
Originally published in Elephant Journal. As a relationship coach, I have noticed the strong impact of vulnerability on sexual attraction. And as a real person who dates, I have seen the undeniable effects of vulnerability in my own life. Which is why I want to share the concept with you. Everyone is relationship challenged Even relationship coaches can have relationship challenges. Our challenges, or what I call "relationship setbacks,"  make us wise and understanding coaches. We know how hard it is to find love. Because we've been there and experienced ups and downs in the journe...
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3 Reasons Why Bad Relationships are the Best Teachers

3 Reasons Why Bad Relationships are the Best Teachers
Good relationships can teach us a lot. But bad relationships can teach us things too. In fact, our appreciation of a good relationship strengthens after we've been through bad relationships. Love is splendid and crazy. The ups, downs, good and bad times, good love, bad love, separations and reunions and break-ups combine to create interesting dynamics. This can show us who, how, and why we love. When a relationship is going well and the love is good, it is the best feeling. But when love takes a turn and things fall apart in a relationship, it can be the worst feeling. This may leave you...
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What Camping Can Teach You About Relationships

What Camping Can Teach You About Relationships
Recently, I went on a weekend hiking trip at the Grand Canyon with a small group of people and someone who very special to me. For many of us, it was our first hike to this particular campsite and we knew it would be a challenge. To get to the campsite and back, we had to hike 10-12 miles each way for a total of 20-24 miles. Additional hikes away from the campsite were 5-10 miles each way. It was a weekend full of walking. Hiking can be an intensive endeavor. As we walked through the canyon, much of the terrain consisted of sand or slippery rocks, and we often had to climb up or down in...
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Why Are You Still Single – The Great Love Debate

Why Are You Still Single – The Great Love Debate
Interestingly, for the first time in a long time in history, 50.2%of the population is single. Not too long ago, the norm was the opposite. Most of us were married. But, times have changed. We are waiting longer to get married because we want to make sure we marry the right person. Being single is ironic, especially in the age of hyper connectedness. You would think with all of the technology apps we have access to, it would be easier. But it's not. And, ironically, you may still be having a hard time connecting with what you really want - your soul mate. I will be at the Great Love Deba...
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In Relationships: Actions Speak Louder Than Words

In Relationships: Actions Speak Louder Than Words
Too often, people will tell you what they think you want to hear. But if you look closely, you may see their actions do not match their words. Whenever this happens, pay attention to their behaviors, not the words that are being spoken. (more…)
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