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Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 17 – The Realities and Truths of Love – Part 3 – The Protection (Covering) of Love

Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 17 – The Realities and Truths of Love – Part 3 – The Protection (Covering) of Love
Welcome to Episode 17 of our Bedtalks Podcast! We enjoy doing this show and hope that you find it to be helpful, slightly entertaining, and practical to put to use in your relationships. K & I have to work at our relationship too. But we believe that the benefits of being in a healthy relationship outweigh the challenges. We hope you are enjoying our five-part series of the Realities and Truths of Love. Love is an amazing experience. It's why we desire to be with someone who cares deeply for us. We wish for a deep connection with someone who understands and gets who we are ...
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Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 16 – The Realities and Truths of Love – Part 2 – The Risks (Gamble) of Love

Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 16 – The Realities and Truths of Love – Part 2 – The Risks (Gamble) of Love
Why do we seek out love if we know there are so many risks that come along with loving someone? It's because there are more benefits to being in a loving relationship than not. However, the truth and realities of love are that while love does bring with it a lot of positives, life has a way of shifting your focus away from those to the more challenging aspects of your relationship. Listen in as K, and I discuss the inherent risks that come with being in a relationship and why the gamble is worth taking. Until next time, XoXo Please also remember to subscribe to our future podca...
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Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 3 – The Lustful Truth About Love

Bedtalks Relationship Podcast Ep. 3 – The Lustful Truth About Love
  In this episode of Bedtalks, we focus on lust and love and how the two intermingle. Differentiating between lust and love is hard in the beginning. Desire can be intense at the onset of a relationship, often making it difficult to recognize true feelings versus infatuation or a physical desire for someone. But lust and love have separate definitions. Love is defined as having an intense deep feeling of affection for someone. Lust is having a strong sexual desire for someone. But the two may coexist in a relationship which is why it's important to be able to differentiate...
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What Harvey Weinstein’s Wife Taught Me About Infidelity

What Harvey Weinstein’s Wife Taught Me About Infidelity
What has been the deal-breaker for you when you have suffered infidelity with someone which you were in love or loved deeply? Have you ever been complicit in an affair that involved your significant other? Infidelity and bad behavior are running rampant in the media. Harvey Weinstein and his platitudes of affairs continue to fill the news every day. His behavior is so oppressive that he was recorded as part of a sting operation by the police who were seeking to gain concrete evidence of his actions and sordid history of sexual assault towards women. But, what struck me the most, was how ...
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Is Infidelity the End of a Relationship?

Is Infidelity the End of a Relationship?
Originally published in Jet Magazine It use to be a time when infidelity was a deal breaker. After all, no one goes into a marriage with the goal of being unfaithful. But it appears as if times have changed. Although we marry with the intent of monogamy, infidelity can happen even when couples are well-suited for one another. But how do you know whether to throw in the towel or forgive your spouse for an indiscretion? If I asked 10 couples how they would react if their significant other cheated on them, their responses would vary. Some couples hold traditional values, while other coup...
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Bill Cosby: Why is the African-American Community Protecting Him?

Bill Cosby: Why is the African-American Community Protecting Him?
Bill Cosby and other fragmented African-American men are a sore topic these days. Black males in America have been demoralized throughout our history and, as a result, the black community has become protective of their image, character representation, and how we discuss them in public. Race discussions can be highly charged. We are hypersensitive because of the backlash associated with racism. Nobody wants to be perceived as a racist. There is also a troubling social double standard so whenever a minority male does something wrong, the reflection on the African-American community as a whole...
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Why Is Camille Still Married to Bill Cosby?

Why Is Camille Still Married to Bill Cosby?
     Bill and Camille Cosby      KEVIN WOLF/AP IMAGES   Given the allegations against Bill Cosby, if you were Camille Cosby, why would you stay married to Bill? Please share your comments. *** You are capable of receiving love. There is a relationship that will work for you. Sometimes all you need is a nudge in the right direction. If you are struggling with your current relationship, newly divorced and looking to get back in the dating scene, or single and trying to find the right person for you, maybe I can help. Reach out to me at therelationshipinvestigator@gmail.com...
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