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Unlucky in Love?

Do you feel stuck, frustrated, Unlucky in Love?

Do you feel stuck, frustrated, and at a loss when it comes to dating? Does it seem like you can never seem to find, then cultivate the right relationship for you? One that makes you happy, one that lasts?
Don’t despair. You’ve come to the right place.

Welcome to I’m Elizabeth Overstreet and I am a relationship investigator. I’m here to help you on your journey to finding and maintaining a healthy, happy relationship.

You are not alone on this journey. Everyone wants to love and be loved. We all deserve a satisfying long-term relationship. But it’s not an easy quest. This is where a relationship investigator can help.

Relationship Investigator Picture What exactly is a relationship investigator? Let me explain. Then you’ll understand how I can guide you to your successful relationship.

My own relationships were failures. Love was not working out for me. So I took a break and investigated. I wanted to find out exactly what did and didn’t seem to work. As I observed different types of relationship dynamics, I noticed consistent themes and issues.

Here’s the truth of the matter: Most of us view relationships in narrow and unrealistic ways. This doesn’t work, not in the long run.

Eventually, I discovered the keys to success. I found out what makes relationships functional, consistent, and long lasting, as well as what tends to lead to unhappy, dysfunctional relationships. Now I will share these keys to success with you. I will help you devise your own individualized roadmap for your own individualized relationship journey.

We all have different goals and desires. We’re not all traveling to the same destination. You are not monolithic and neither are your relationships. Investigating healthy relationships and exploring your own needs will help you to figure out what will work best for you. This is the effective way to establish and foster relationships. Designing your own individualized pathway to success will ensure you arrive at your intended destination.

I will help you accomplish the following:
1. Figure out the best advice for you regarding dating and long-term relationships;
2. Identify unhelpful advice (which is repeated in the culture but has become outdated or ineffective) and remove it from the way you function in your relationships;
3. Delete all the myths, fallacies, and unrealistic expectations which cause your relationship failures.

I had to do this for myself. Then I helped my friends, relatives, and clients to do the same. All it takes is attention to your own truth versus what “everyone says” about dating and relationships.

While researching my book The Relationship Investigator’s Fast Guide to Successful Dating, I read lots of information pertaining to dating and relationships that was inaccurate and unhelpful. But some of the material I found included nuggets of real wisdom. I had to separate the wheat from the chaff, and synthesize the best information with my own experience. After extensive research into the most successful dating books and the advice of our most respected dating experts, I was able to devise simple but effective guidelines for my clients.

I created my program based on 5 steps to relationship success. And these fast easy steps really work.

A Little Bit About Me

Elizabeth Overstreet The Relationship Investigator I come from a long line of successful relationships, with parents who have been married more than 50 years. My grandparents were also married for more than 50 years. These happy relatives passed on nuggets of information regarding their marital success.

I wasn’t so lucky myself. I was married, divorced, a perennial dater. But after I learned how to manage a successful relationship, I became the go-to person for advice on relationship challenges. I advised friend, relatives, finally clients. This led to the establishment of a relationship coaching service, and to the writing of my book.

I had thought about writing a book for many years. Then I went through a devastating breakup from a long-term relationship. I found that putting pen to paper served as a cathartic way of dealing with the emotional ups and downs. The more I reflected on what I learned from that relationship and others I had been in, the faster I seemed to recover.

Most of us spend a lot of time preparing for careers, vacations, parties, and weddings, but when it comes to choosing our partners and preparing for a long-term relationship, we do so little in advance. We fall in love, fight and make up. And this seems to be enough. But is it? For one of the most important lifetime decisions we will ever make, a commitment to another human being, possibly for life?

No, of course not. I believe our relationships deserve more than that. We need to chart the journey so we arrive at the destination we need and want. This is what my book and this website will help you to do. I want you to find the right person, make a commitment, then feel happy within your relationship. For the long run.

The journey starts with being happy with who you are. Finding the right relationship and making it last is a process. I will take the journey with you.

Why not begin now? It is my hope that this website will serve as a good starting point for your journey to relationship success.


Elizabeth Overstreet
The Relationship Investigator


You are capable of receiving love. There is a relationship that will work for you. Sometimes all you need is a nudge in the right direction. If you are struggling with your current relationship, newly divorced and looking to get back in the dating scene, or single and trying to find the right person for you, maybe I can help. Reach out to me at [email protected], or sign up on my website to receive dating tips and relationship advice. For fast advice, read my book, The Relationship Investigator’s Fast Guide to Successful Dating.

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